Wednesday, October 19, 2011

Viva La Vida Ma Africano

What does it take to attract an African man? Simple I say – through a careful observation, these I have concluded to be true to a heart’s desire … a few tactics to be applied like science chemistry and you could have them stamping at your doorsteps like a swamp of breeding butterflies heading for the sweet nectar of a brightly coloured flower. So what are they … let me whisper into your ears – being a domestic woman is essential because most African men were raised in families where mothers took good care of them and filled their stomachs with good food. Spick and span is the next best thing. Cleanliness is a virtue that attracts the attention of most African men. So it is good to keep clean at all times … be it at heart, soul and mind to be in their spotlight. Besides, being organised is an expectation in high demand especially from self-appearance to household management and most would view you under the prism of a great and reassuring woman, who would definitely make a good domestic administrator, a caring mom and a committed wife to have and to hold or else it could be a real turn off. Next, on the slope is no smoking or even drinking heavily because that signals recklessness in the eyes of most African men as an unhealthy habit. Thus, if you are the type, God gracious, trust me they would hardly dream of coming back. Always be honest in what ever situation as that virtue goes a long way with African men and they are sure to shower you with unyielding love, hence they would adore and keep you in their hearts at all times. Listen and speak with due respect to their African heritage. The relationship enhances well when you strive to name their children with African names and even add a religious name. Most African men come from very closely-knit family and would return home to visit their families and friends in their cherished memories as follows it is always good to be kindly supportive, embrace and even join them when they return to their homeland.  Above all, be a modest woman in charge, let him be the man, husband and father of your lovely children and he would be there for you and your children as that is nearly every African man’s ultimate goal. Cheers!