What to do in a relationship when the person you love is also the person you fear? It is important to see the relationship especially if it is an abusive one. Abusive relationships re not healthy relationships. They are dangerous. The common term is "toxic".
Abuse is all about power and control. The person doing the abuse (abuser/0 exert their power by doing what they want. The more they learn they can get away with it, the more they do it. It is the same with physical abuse. Alcohol is not a reason for people to beat or harm their loved ones. It is an excuse so that they do not have to be held accountable for their behavior. Controllers, abusers, bullies and manipulative people do not question themselves. They do not ask themselves if the problem is them. They always say the problem is someone else. There will be sunny days but not always, it will start getting lesser and lesser. In the essence, one will lose their self in the process. It's better to be safe than sorry.
Just because you leave your loved one, it doesn't mean you don't love them anymore. You can still love them from a far rather than be together and endure the pain. Times have changed, where women have a choice now to not remain in an abusive relationship, be it from a sibling, spouse, family or friends.
I'm KP saying, "Keep Firm and Throw Out The Abusers"!
